The Sweetest Mother's Day Gift!

My Mom Taught Me How To Spend Time

In: Grief, Grown Children
Woman and elderly mother touch foreheads

I buried my face into the chocolate-brown fleece hoodie and inhaled. Nothing. I did not catch her scent. Maybe it only works in the movies. Maybe my senses were still paralyzed. It had only been two weeks, and time had stopped even as so many things transpired around me. Well, if not so many things, then the biggest thing. Ever. By 6 a.m., mom’s husband and four children had gathered around her hospital bed. In minutes she would pass, less than eight hours after her heart attack. It felt furiously fast and out-of-body, like watching anguished characters in a horror...

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I’m So Lucky To Call My Mom My Best Friend

In: Grown Children, Motherhood
Mother and grown daughter hug

Consider yourself lucky when you don’t have to look for a best friend, but it naturally happens—because she’s your mom. My mom has always been that for me. It started before I could even remember. I have memories of coming home from school and watching Oprah with her while I started my homework. I have memories of cereal being thrown in my direction to make me laugh when I was sad. I had a lot of anxiety around most people, but with her, I always felt at ease. She was always my mother first, but that has developed into a...

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For All the Ways You Loved Me, Mom…Thank You

In: Motherhood
Mom and daughter old photo

Thank you, Mom, for all the things. I get it now. Finally, I get it. Growing up, I knew how much you loved me, but I didn’t realize how far you loved me. It covered so many different dimensions I didn’t even realize existed until I, too, became a mom. Understanding it better now, it’s humbling. My heart overflows with gratitude. Thank you, Mom, for the times you showed up for me. I remember being no more than three years old, having been sent to bed without dinner for not finishing the meal I didn’t like. Later that night, you...

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