Christmas Magic Died When My Mom Went To Heaven
Every year it seems to come earlier. Trick-or-treaters haven't even reached out doorstep before Christmas makes its appearance in every…
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Grief is Saying Goodbye Over and Over Again
Twenty-five years ago, I was a 4th grade book nerd who said goodbye to a dad dying early and to…
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The Loss of a Child Brings Isolating Grief
The more time that passes, the more isolating grief feels. I have isolated myself. I have pushed people away. I…
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Siblings Are the Forgotten Grievers
July 8, 2019 was one of the happiest and proudest days of my life. I had completed my first surrogacy,…
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There’s No “At Least” In Grief
At least you have your two other sons. At least he didn’t suffer for long. At least you have a…
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What Grieving Hearts Really Need is Grace
I know they mean well. I know they speak with love. That doesn’t make the words sting any lighter. The…
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But Mom, I Always Thought We’d Have More Time
Sometimes I feel guilty that I still miss you. Sometimes I feel like enough time has passed, and I should…
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“Mama, Can You Die From a Broken Heart?”
She’s listening to country songs as her hair is blowing in the wind. She looks and feels older than she…
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Marry the Person Who Loves You Through Grief
I’ve read countless “Marry the Person Who . . .” articles. All have held truth. All have held beauty. However,…
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My Mother Knew Everything About Me and Now She’s Gone
She held the title of mother. She held the responsibility of friend, caretaker, referee, chauffeur, and all the other duties…
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