Kids Motherhood

Stop This Bullying! It’s Time To Teach Our Children Compassion

Stop This Bullying! It's Time To Teach Our Children Compassion
Written by Stacey Skrysak

Ugly. Freak. Monster.

Imagine if those horrendous words were used to describe your child. Bullying is something many of us parents fear, and unfortunately, one Idaho father is in the thick of this nightmare as his son has become a victim in the most horrifying way. Bullying is a real issue, and as parents, we need to help put a stop to it.

Dan Bezzant wrote a Facebook post about his son, Jackson, and the disgusting bullying his son has faced. Jackson has Treacher Collins, a rare genetic condition that affects the bones and tissues of the face. In a post that has gone viral, Dan describes the heartbreaking reality his 8-year-old is living in.

“He says he has no friends and everyone hates him,” writes Dan. “Kids throw rocks at him and push him shouting these horrific words.”

Dan writes that his son has even talked about suicide. He’s an innocent 8-year-old child. Suicide should not even be in his vocabulary. Dan told local media that the school is doing all it can to prevent bullying and he doesn’t blame the faculty.

One look at this handsome young boy and it’s painful to imagine the hurt he has endured, especially at such a young age. The growing trend of bullying shows what is wrong with our society. Children learn from their parents and the adults who are in their lives. And right there is the problem. We’re supposed to be role models, but we often don’t realize the actions we take speak louder than words.

In this day and age where our lives are plastered on social media, it’s easy to get caught up in the cattiness of life. People can hide behind a computer and spew hatred, all while staying anonymous. And even though we may not realize it, our children pick up on our gossiping tendencies. They may hear a snide remark said under our breath, or hear us criticizing a celebrity’s appearance. But those comments add up, even shaping the way our children may think.

As we get caught up in the hustle and bustle of life, we are forgetting the basics. We need to teach our children kindness and compassion. We need to help our children understand that each person is different and unique in their own way. It’s who we are on the inside that truly matters, not what’s on the surface. It’s time to educate our children, and to do that, we need to practice what we preach.

As Dan’s Facebook post continues to spread, there’s a glimmer of hope, showing us there really are good people in this world. The thousands of messages of kindness far outweigh the bullies trying to tear young Jackson down. And the raw, emotional plea from his father is the perfect reminder of how a little compassion can make the world of a difference in someone’s life.

To send a message of hope to Jackson, his family set up a P.O. box. Send cards to: Jackson Bezzant, P.O. Box 1563, Idaho Falls, ID 83402.

About the author

Stacey Skrysak

Stacey Skrysak may not be a native of Nebraska, but she called it home for many years. You may recognize her from her days as a morning and noon anchor on NTV in Kearney. She liked Nebraska so much, she even married into a Cornhusker family! These days, Stacey lives in Springfield, Illinois where she is a news anchor for WICS-TV. Stacey and her husband are parents to Peyton, their surviving triplet, who was born more than 17 weeks premature. Abigail and Parker are their triplet angels watching from above. Through her heartbreaking experience, Stacey has become a voice for dealing with grief, infertility and life with a micro-premie. Her triplets have touched thousands of lives around the world, thanks to Stacey’s blog “Perfectly Peyton”. Stacey looks forward to sharing the trials and tribulations of balancing work and home life, all with a little humor thrown in.