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Here’s a list (with direct links) to all of the stories shared today. Thank you for your kindness.

Thanking Those Who Loved Us Through Our Losses

To My Ectopic Baby

You Need To Know They Won’t Be Forgotten

I See You – Newly Bereaved Mother

You Will Always Wonder

10 Things About Love and Loss

For A Moment

The Root of our Instinct

We Still Mourn

What My Miscarriages Have Taught Me

Samantha Was Real And She Was My Baby

My Baby Was Gone

The 20-week Gift

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Leslie Means

Leslie is the founder and owner of Her View From Home.com. She is also a former news anchor, published children’s book author, weekly columnist, and has several published short stories as well. She is married to a very patient man. Together they have three fantastic kids. When she’s not sharing too much personal information online and in the newspaper – you’ll find Leslie somewhere in Nebraska hanging out with family and friends. There’s also a 75% chance at any given time, you’ll spot her in the aisles at Target.

My Baby Was Stillborn, But Still Born

In: Child Loss, Grief

My baby was stillborn, but still born. In a cool white hospital room where so many had been born before. My body trembled and shook as his body worked its way out of my womb and into the hands of a doctor. He was void of breath, of sound, of movement, but he was still born. My baby was stillborn, but still lived. In the darkness of my womb. The outline of his body was visible against the darkness of the screen, his presence undeniable. The sound of his heartbeat drowned out the sound of mine as I watched his...

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I Am Not My Child’s Death

In: Cancer, Child Loss, Faith, Grief

We are NOT what has happened to us or what this world says we are. That is not what defines us. While we are grieving parents, that is not what our whole story has to be about. Although, at times, we feel that our story is over. We ask, how do we go on and live full lives without our sweet Sophie with us? I’m still not 100 percent sure I know the answer to that. BUT the Lord says I am beloved. I am redeemed and accepted. I am holy and chosen. I am righteous and complete. I am...

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The Hardest Moments After Losing a Child

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Within the first three months following the death of my newborn daughter, I participated in one baby shower, attended two first birthday parties, had multiple infants in and around my home, and watched not one, not two, but five of my closest friends take happy, healthy babies home from the hospital. And in the midst of my own life-altering experience, I purchased, wrapped, and mailed a gift to every one of those new babies, because they deserved one. In the days and months after my daughter died, I didn’t run away or hide from babies at all. And this seemed...

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6 Commitments I Made to Myself After Child Loss

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Following the death of our infant daughter, I found myself facing an opportunity to activate the immense power of personal choice. Time and time again. Hour after hour, day after day. It felt as if every moment that passed provided me with a choice: to let the grief consume me, or not. In the midst of the most emotionally complex experience of my life, my ability to survive felt as simple as that. Will grief consume me, or not? Once I began believing that Olivia had lived out her life’s plan completely—that she had come, she had loved, she had...

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To the Moms and Dads Who Suffer Loss: You Are Not Alone

In: Child Loss, Grief, Infertility, Motherhood

You are walking the hardest path anyone will ever walk—living this life without your children. Your losses have come in many shapes and sizes. You’ve lost tiny heartbeats early in the womb. You’ve screamed and sobbed through labor to deliver a silent but perfect little bundle. You’ve held a fragile infant for hours, days, weeks, or months, only to give him back to Heaven. You’ve watched your little one grow into a curious toddler and then held her a final time as disease or an accident took her away. You’ve lived a full childhood with your baby and even watched...

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A Letter to My Mama, From Your Baby in Heaven

In: Child Loss, Faith, Grief, Miscarriage

Dear Mama, I know you miss me and wish you could watch me grow up. But instead, you sit in that rocking chair, tears streaming down your face, arms wrapped around the blanket that was supposed to be mine. I see you crying, Mama, wishing you could hold me. Wishing you could look into my eyes. Wishing you could hear me cry or call you “Mama”. I want you to know Jesus rocks me to sleep every night and while He does it, He tells me all about you. I know tulips are your favorite flower and that every spring...

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God Actually Does Give Us More Than We Can Handle

In: Child Loss, Faith, Grief

I used to be someone who said, “God doesn’t give you more than you can handle.” That was before I had faced any hardships in my life. I didn’t know who God truly is. When people are going through something hard and decide to share it, it makes people uncomfortable. It’s hard to watch others who are hurting, and it’s hard not knowing how to help when it’s someone you love. “God doesn’t give us more than we can handle” is a very well-meaning encouragement that I know is meant in love. I’ve said it before! But it’s not really...

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Why I Got a Tattoo With My Teenage Daughters

In: Child Loss, Grown Children, Motherhood, Teen

“We should get a tattoo, Mom.” I laughed. I knew it was just my younger daughter, Sarah’s way of getting herself a tattoo—to go along with her nose ring, and six ear piercings. She didn’t really want me to get one. Did she? “Truth!” My oldest, more conservative daughter, Elle, chimed in. “We should all go.” What? Home from college just five minutes, maybe she was bored. I heard tattoos really hurt and she hates pain, like I do. I glared at my two daughters, now 17 and 19. They can read my mind. I knew it! There was something...

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I’m Not Sure How Long I’ll Need an Antidepressant to Feel Normal…and That’s OK

In: Cancer, Child Loss, Grief, Mental Health

I tried to wean off of Zoloft and couldn’t. And that’s OK. I had never really been aware of the world of antidepressants. My life has been relatively uneventful—with the normal ups and downs that most of us go through. I knew people on medication for depression but never understood. How can you be THAT sad that you can’t just be positive and make the best of your circumstances? How can someone be THAT unhappy ALL the time to need medication? I didn’t get it. I felt bad for people going through it. Then my 2-year-old was diagnosed with Stage...

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To the Young Warriors Fighting Cancer, You Are Superheroes

In: Cancer, Child, Child Loss, Health

Most people never get to meet their heroes. I have, in fact—I have met many heroes. These heroes didn’t set out for greatness; they fell victim to a terrible disease and faced it with courage, might and bravery like I have never seen before. And when we talk about this type of battle, there is no such thing as losing. whether the battle ended in death, life, or debility, each of these heroes defeated. My heroes are the innocent children who battle cancer. I high-fived, hugged, wept over, laughed and played with my heroes for 10 years as a nurse. And you better believe I...

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Thank You (Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day)

If you liked this, you'll love our new book, SO GOD MADE A MOTHER available for pre-order now!

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Leslie Means

My Baby Was Stillborn, But Still Born

I Am Not My Child’s Death

The Hardest Moments After Losing a Child

6 Commitments I Made to Myself After Child Loss

To the Moms and Dads Who Suffer Loss: You Are Not Alone

A Letter to My Mama, From Your Baby in Heaven

God Actually Does Give Us More Than We Can Handle

Why I Got a Tattoo With My Teenage Daughters

I’m Not Sure How Long I’ll Need an Antidepressant to Feel Normal…and That’s OK

To the Young Warriors Fighting Cancer, You Are Superheroes

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Thank You (Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day)

If you liked this, you'll love our new book, SO GOD MADE A MOTHER available for pre-order now!

Her View Shop

My Baby Was Stillborn, But Still Born

I Am Not My Child’s Death

The Hardest Moments After Losing a Child

6 Commitments I Made to Myself After Child Loss

To the Moms and Dads Who Suffer Loss: You Are Not Alone

A Letter to My Mama, From Your Baby in Heaven

God Actually Does Give Us More Than We Can Handle

Why I Got a Tattoo With My Teenage Daughters

I’m Not Sure How Long I’ll Need an Antidepressant to Feel Normal…and That’s OK

To the Young Warriors Fighting Cancer, You Are Superheroes

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