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Happy Holidays everyone!

Who doesn’t love this time of year, when most (well other than the monthly bills) of the mail is so much fun to open with a loving card from your family and friends! I love receiving the witty letters that some of you write, as well as the charming photos on the cards of all of your families! How can you not be excited for the mail each day?

Many of you have your own personal traditions when sending out Christmas cards, but there are still some rules everyone should observe to make sure your holiday cards are full of perfectly articulated cheer. Here we go…

7 tips for Proper Etiquette When Sending out Christmas Cards

 

1. Mail your cards as early as possible, but not more than a week before Thanksgiving.

Ideally you want your cards to arrive in early or mid December. While sending them too early is not the best scenario, keep in mind that the post office is extremely busy this time of year and you don’t want your cards to arrive after Christmas day. I know not all of us are always that organized. I have many customers that send out New Year’s Cards to make sure they spread their Holiday Cheer even if they couldn’t make the Christmas deadline. I am pretty sure that is what ours will be this year!

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2. Use your own handwriting wherever possible, especially on the outside of the envelopes and signatures inside the cards.

This will give your cards a personal touch and show that you care enough to take a few minutes and give each card some attention. If you have a few more minutes, take time to do some fancy calligraphy (or fake calligraphy) on your envelopes. I love when a letter is mailed and it looks like a piece of art before I even get to the real show piece.

3. Include your return address on all cards.

The return address serves many purposes. First, the recipient will know who the card is from right away. Also, it ensures that they have your current address every year and they can use it to send a card back to you if they haven’t already. I love making return addresses part of the originality of the card. Creating a wrap around label specifically designed for your card is a great way to add that extra touch that sets your cards apart from the rest of the mail!

4. Don’t send e-cards as a substitute for real cards.

A Christmas card should be an act of generosity with a personal touch. If all you have to do was click a link to send a card out, it no longer evokes the feeling of traditional winter cheer. It’s easy to get affordable Christmas cards from your favorite local design or print shop or there are great online options these days. Many shops have predesigned cards for you to chose from or they can create something custom for you!

Predesigned cards are great, but our family always loves to create and send custom holiday cards like these for a more personal touch.

5. When sending Christmas cards to business associates, send it to their offices unless you also know them socially.

If you haven’t been introduced to their families, keep the cards professional. Sign the cards with a note from you personally, but reserve the family photo cards for your friends and relatives.

6. When sending cards to co-workers, mail the cards to their homes rather than handing them out in the office.

This is more personal, and avoids conflict in case you don’t have cards for everyone. It also has a more traditional feel when your card arrives along with everyone else’s in an addressed envelope.

7. Enjoy it!

If it’s stressful for you to send holiday cards, don’t do it. Take a year off if you need to and come back refreshed. It’s supposed to be a lovely holiday tradition. But if it’s not for you, that’s OK too. 

Well that is it! The holidays are all about love and celebrating with your family and friends! Send out your Christmas card this year with confidence! Don’t forget to add that personal touch to show your loved ones how much you care!

P.S. If you’re really feeling creative, Canva makes it easy to create your own card from scratch with the help of gorgeous predesigned templates and tools. Check it out here

Do you send out your Christmas cards with the same generic 'Merry Christmas' every single year? Read this post about the 7 tips for proper etiquette when sending Christmas cards.

 

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Alicia Bauer

As the owner + creative director behind Ally B Designs, Alicia's love of design, fashion, and crafting has allowed her to have the most emotionally rewarding career. After working in the graphic design industry for over 10 years, Alicia found her true calling after planning her own wedding. She took what she loved from graphic design and combined it with all things personal and pretty. Alicia loves combining beautiful papers, fun fonts, and luscious textures to create a beautiful piece of art. A Nebraska girl from the heart, Alicia brings down home charm to every invitation created and event styled.

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