It’s Not Your Job to Meet Your Husband’s Needs In the Bedroom
If I heard it one more time, I swore I was going to flip out. “As a wife, you are to meet your husband’s needs.” …
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I May Be a Busy Mom, But I’m a Woman First and Sex is (Still) Important
It’s Saturday morning, and I am unloading the dishwasher in my baggy PJs. I am not even sure I have brushed my teeth yet. All of our children are…
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We Should Be Saving More Than Just Sex For Marriage
“Are you saving yourself for marriage?” It’s an age-old question and I was always eager to answer with a loud YES. But I wasn’t really saving…
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To the Woman Battling Herself in the Bedroom
I wonder if I’m a girl you’d think struggles with sex. Isn’t that what we all wonder? Maybe it’s not sex, pornography,…
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Dear Husband, Sometimes I Choose Sleep Over Sex Because I Really Am That Tired
As the fingers of one hand press the squares to key the words on the screen, the other hand is wiping a gooey substance that might be nugget sauce or…
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I Don’t Want Sex, but I Still Want Intimacy
Dear Husband, I realized something had gone wrong when you went to kiss me and I instinctively pulled away. I could tell you were hurt and just…
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How To Handle “The Talk” With Pre-Teens, From a Mental Health Therapist
As a mental health therapist, I’m familiar with “the talk”. I’ve had a lot of “talks” with children and teenagers…
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We Need To Do Better At Talking To Our Kids About Sex
We need to do better, much better, at talking to our kids about sex. This isn’t a new concern; it stems from my own youth, but is still…
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When Sex Is Used As a Bargaining Chip, No One Wins
If you surround yourself with enough women in committed relationships (both online and in the real world), you will inevitably talk about sex. There…
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Don’t Stop Having Sex Because You Have Kids
Dear moms of littles, I get it. You’re touched out. You’re worn out. You haven’t slept a full night in . . . what’s today? You’re…
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