The Sweetest Mother's Day Gift!

Why would I leave my comfortable and spacious home to spend a weekend in a camper the size of our bedroom? Why would I trade my nice, hot shower for a community bathhouse and put up with bugs, dirt, gravel and sand?

There’s plenty of reasons why. But, mostly it’s about connecting or disconnecting. Connecting to family, God and nature. Disconnecting from media, distractions and household chores.

While we all have our moments during our camping excursions (pesky June bugs and cramped quarters sometimes make you lose it), in the end we all leave as Happy Campers.

Here’s a few reasons why camping tops my list of favorite summer activities.

1. Family Bonding. My love of camping started as a young girl. My dad owned a local electrical business that required long hours or work. But, he loved camping and that was when we got to spend time with him as a family. That’s when my real dad emerged. Now, I love seeing my real kids emerge during our camping adventures. Lazy days void of work, chores and household distractions give us a good dose of quality family time.

2. No Cleaning or Laundry. Sure, it takes some extra laundry time and preparation to pack for camping. But, once I’m there, it’s a weekend free of toilet scrubbing, laundry or floor cleaning. At home, these tasks always beckon me away from my family. At the campground, I’m free to spend my time playing board games or Frisbee or just chatting away with loved ones.

3. Best Food Ever, and I Don’t Have to Cook It. When we camp, the food prep and planning is all completed ahead of time. Last time we camped, my husband and I mapped out a meal plan and made a special 30-minute date night at the grocery store to purchase the food together. And, the best part for me is that most of the food requires the grill, which is my husband’s job! So, no cooking for me! And, since my husband is a better cook than I am, we feast on steak, chicken kabobs and juicy grilled hamburgers.

4. Camping Breakfast. In the camping world, breakfast rules! Nothing like waking up to a beautiful morning and heading out to the picnic table to eat a delicious breakfast among the chirping birds. Most camping folks have their favorite breakfast traditions, which may include bacon, eggs, pancakes, breakfast burritos or cinnamon rolls cooked in a Dutch oven. Our “camping breakfast” consists of eggs, bacon and blueberry bagels buttered and warmed crispy on a griddle. Yummy!

5. Outdoor Games. At home, the kids’ favorite activities are watching TV and playing video games. But, I actually witnessed my 11 and 15-year-old sons playing Frisbee together last time we camped! In addition to Frisbee, there’s ladder golf, horseshoes, bean-bag or washer tosses, badminton, baseball and whiffle ball. And for rainy days, there’s UNO, Yahtzee and Apples to Apples inside the camper. Most campgrounds also have playgrounds, and my kids can spend hours swinging or playing in the sand. Last summer, my son and his campground friends built an elaborate sand city complete with a river running through it.

6. The Great Outdoors. During our camping weekends, we take long walks or bike rides, noticing the birds, flowers and sounds of nature along the way. There’s just something about being in nature among the trees, grass and water that clears my mind and leaves me feeling refreshed. And, I feel closer to God when I’m enjoying His beautiful natural wonders.

Happy Campers: 7 Reasons a Weekend of "Roughin’ It" is Good for the Soul www.herviewfromhome.com

7. Campfires and S’mores. Sitting around a cracking, hot fire on a cool summer night brings about some of the best conversations. Everyone grabs their lawn chair and their favorite drink and sits in a circle around the fire. I love catching up on my loved-ones lives during this camping ritual. And, of course those slightly browned marshmallows squished between graham crackers and chocolate just add to the fun. Substitute a Reese’s Peanut Butter cup for the Hershey’s chocolate, and it’s pure camping heaven!

Happy Campers: 7 Reasons a Weekend of "Roughin’ It" is Good for the Soul   www.herviewfromhome.com

8. A Reason to Sit and Do Nothing. At home, a long to-do list nags at me all day. I wouldn’t dream of sitting in a lawn chair for even an hour enjoying the day. But while I’m camping, that’s what I do. It gives me an excuse to sit and do nothing and still feel like I’m doing something because I’m camping. And, that’s why I’m a Happy Camper!

So God Made a Grandmother book by Leslie Means

If you liked this, you'll love our book, SO GOD MADE A GRANDMA

Order Now!

Kristine Jacobson

Kristine Jacobson is a writer, a mother of three children and farm wife living in South-Central Nebraska. She puts her creative skills to use as editor of Nebraska Family Magazine at www.nebraskafamilymagazine.com and helps non-profits and small businesses share their stories in her public relations business, KRJPR.

Robotics Kids Are Building More than You Can See

In: Kids
Robotics kid watching competition

These robotics kids are going to shape our future. I think this every time I watch an elementary, middle school, or high school competition. My thoughts go back many years to when my middle child, who was six at the time, went with my husband to the high school robotics shop. They were only stopping in briefly to pick up some engineering kits, but my child quickly became captivated by what the “big kids” were doing. He stood quietly watching until one student walked over and asked if he would like to see what they were working on. My son,...

Keep Reading

Foster Care Kids Are Worth Fighting for

In: Kids
Hand holding young child's hand

Sometimes foster care looks like bringing a child from a hard place into your home. Sometimes it looks like sitting at a ball field with a former foster love’s mom and being her village. He’s the one who has brought me to my knees more times than my own children. He’s the one I lie awake at night thinking about. He’s the one I beg the father to protect. He’s the one who makes me want to get in the trenches over and over again. It’s our Bubba. So much of the story is not mine to tell, but the...

Keep Reading

We Aren’t Holding Her Back—We’re Giving Her More Time

In: Kids
Child writing on preschool paper

When we decided to give our preschooler another year before kindergarten, I thought the hardest part would be explaining it to other people. I was wrong. The hardest part was the afternoon her teacher asked to talk. In that split second in the pick-up line, my heart sank. I assumed the worst. I braced myself for a conversation about behavior, about something we had somehow missed, about whether her strong personality was causing problems. Instead, it became the moment that confirmed what we already knew. We were not holding her back. We were giving her time. Our daughter is bright....

Keep Reading

A Life Lived Differently Is Not a Life Less Lived

In: Kids
Little boy running in field

My life changed on that beautiful autumn day. The thing is, nothing really happened. Not really. My life kind of went on as usual. A fly on the wall might even say it was a great day. I brought my 3-year-old son to an animal farm for a Halloween event. He was quirky as usual and a bit ornery that day. Aloof. “Come feed the baby animals,” I pleaded. No, thank you. Crowds of excited children? Absolutely not. Buckets of candy? You can keep them. My heart ached watching my beautiful, blonde-haired boy wander into a field alone, away from...

Keep Reading

Enjoy the Ride, Kid

In: Kids
Two people running up from the water at the beach

Last night I watched an episode of Shrinking. If you haven’t jumped into the series yet, it’s one of those that hits the heart hard- at least for me. The episode centered on the birth of a baby, while one of the characters grappled with the closing years of life. Spoiler alert: as the elder of the group cradled this new life in his arms, bridging generations across the hospital room, the moment of realization of how fast life goes hit like a ton of bricks. “Enjoy the ride, kid.” The final words of this episode are sitting with me,...

Keep Reading

Mommy, Will You Play With Me?

In: Kids, Motherhood
Boy sitting in middle of toys smiling

With four kids at three different schools, our days are full. Between sports practices, music lessons, clubs, rehearsals, games, meets, and playdates, it feels like we’re constantly heading somewhere. I love that my children are involved in activities, but occasionally, it’s nice to have some downtime. When I get a text or email that a practice has been canceled, it’s usually a huge relief. Last week, after-school sports were cancelled due to heavy rain. When I picked up my youngest son from school, I told him we’d be going straight home for the rest of the afternoon. He looked surprised....

Keep Reading

Could We Take a Page from the ’80s and Stop Overparenting?

In: Kids, Motherhood

I have a confession: Yesterday I let my 11-year-old play with fire. Like literally. We live in the country, there is still wet snow on the ground, and he’s done it with his dad at least 20 times. But yesterday was the fifth consecutive day of no school, and probably the twentieth consecutive day of him asking to have a small fire without dad. Part of me did it out of laziness. Part of me did it out of selfishness. And part of me did it out of nostalgia. Here’s the thing—when I was 11, I was already babysitting (like...

Keep Reading

A Big Brother Is His Little Sister’s First Friend

In: Kids
Big brother and little sister smiling at each other

He doesn’t remember the day she came home.But she has never known a world without him. From the beginning, he was there first. The first to reach for her hand. The first to explain the rules. The first to decide what was fair and what absolutely was not. He didn’t know he was being assigned a role. He just stepped into it. Big brother. She followed him everywhere. Into rooms she technically wasn’t invited into. Into games she didn’t fully understand. Into stories she insisted on hearing again and again. She wanted to do what he did, say what he...

Keep Reading

7 Is the Bridge Between Little and Big Kid

In: Kids
Girl sitting in front of dollhouse

I was in the middle of the post-holiday clean-up chaos when something hit me. My oldest daughter is seven, and while it feels like an age that doesn’t get talked about much, it really is turning out to be such a sweet spot. It hit me as we were redesigning her room. A change that occurred when she broke my mama-heart a few weeks prior by saying she didn’t think she wanted a princess room anymore. While everything in me wanted to try to convince her to keep it, stay small and sweet just a little longer, I knew I...

Keep Reading

So God Made a Gymnast

In: Kids
Young gymnast on balance beam

God made a gymnast with fearless grace, strength in her heart, and a fire in her spirit. He molded her courage, steady and true, and quietly whispered, “We believe in you.” He taught her balance when life feels chaotic and messy, to leap into her faith and stick each landing just right. When she stumbles, He is always right there to help her rise back up with faith in her soul and a spark in her eyes. Each floor routine with the grace of a swan; each move is a dream, all built on dedication and grit. God made her...

Keep Reading