Today when I woke, it had lifted, like sunshine peeking after rain. And as my toddler clicked on the lamp beside my bed to see her mama, I saw me too. I got out of bed and I walked down the hall. And the coffee pot sat there waiting for me, as always, like my husband at the kitchen table with his books.

He smiled at me, and I think he could tell as I took my medicine, took down a mug, and poured my coffee. I opened the secretary desk and pulled out the chair and my Bible, like they weren’t a hundred pounds . . . like yesterday. Like my toddler wasn’t behind me with her little hooks around my neck, as always . . . but she was.

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And I rolled with the punches as if I always do, as if yesterday never happenedwhen I was in bed and the kids got to watch movies. They rejoiced when I said yes to ice cream at a random time of day. (And one girl took me literally when I said yes to as much as she wanted.)

When I texted my husband, and he said, “Sorry, babe. I know that’s a hard place to be.” And he Instacarted us frozen pizza for dinner, like it was no trouble at all to care for his wife.

The children were sick anyway, and so they didn’t suspect a thing when Dad came home and moved all the furniture that had been irrationally stressing me out for days. He said he knew I would ask again someday, and he was okay with that.

But anyway, back to this morning. When I woke, like the sun after rain. When I smiled and kissed my husband and went out with the recycling and the cold air that smelled like Christmas. When I kept my phone in my room on the charger all morning.

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And, swatting the fruit flies that had been calling me a bad mom for days, I unpeeled the brown bananas. They smelled sweet as I mashed them and cracked the eggs from our Amish neighbors. I filled the muffin tin with liners, and poured in the buttery batter. I made my sick kids more toast, and I said unto my soul, “be at rest once more,” for the Lord has been good to me. “He inclines His ear.” “He cares for those who trust in Him.”

The joy really does come in the morning, and I think for the first time, I can see it so clearly. I see it so clearly in my heart, and so that’s why I had to write it down . . .

On Earth, the darkness will come; the days like yesterday.
But there is beauty I can’t see like He can see.
Like presents under the tree, or the baby in the manger.
Like Easter eggs, or His body in the tomb.
Like cold air, like Christmas memories, like frozen pizza;
like old bananas mixed into muffins.

“Return unto thy rest, O my soul; for the Lord hath dealt bountifully with thee.” (Psalm 116:7)

Originally published on the author’s blog

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Liz Irwin

I am a 30-something, homeschooling mama of four. I love writing and wallpaper, and Heidi and Anne of Green Gables. I have always struggled with mental health, but have not shared much about it since motherhood forced me to. I am seeking the beauty in it as I walk with God and find others who can relate. I love to make art when I have the time and dream of doing more of that (and writing) as my kids get older. You can see some bits of my art and life on Instagram @liz.vile.irwin and substack:

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