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“When two vowels go walking, the first one does the talking.” 

My furloughed kindergartener sat on a kitchen stool, legs tucked under a fluffy pink skirt, pencil clutched tightly in her hand. As she bent over the spelling sheet on the countertop muttering the familiar rhyme, she sighed. “I miss Miss. McKibbin, Mom.”

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An unexpected pang of sadness hit me. 

“I miss her too, kiddo.” 

In fact, I’m supposed to be sitting down across from her right now for parent-teacher conferences. Instead, I’m sorting through messages from the school district about e-learning plans and connecting with the kids’ teachers via educational apps, all in preparation for . . . whatever comes next. 

It’s given me a deeper appreciation for the heroes we call teachers. 

This week, as we’ve been digesting nonstop news about COVID-19 and what its spread means for our communities, our country, and the world, our teachers have been meeting to make alternative plans for the remainder of the school year.

And I have a feeling they’re working harder than any of us realize to make sure our kids—who have suddenly lost so much—are not only educated, but loved a little extra. 

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They’re thinking outside a box that was definitely not advertised in any of the teacher training they completed.  

They’re posting videos to social media just to say hello to students who are feeling anxious and confused.  

They’re developing lesson plans that parents who never expected to be homeschoolers will be able to carry out at home. 

They’re keeping a sense of humor and tapping into a brand of creativity people like me could only dream of having. 

They’re checking in on us—and more importantly, on our kids. 

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In this time of social distancing, the men and women behind one of the most social aspects of our lives are stepping up. 

And we are so grateful. 

I’m not sure how long it will be before I get to sit down with Miss McKibbin for that parent-teacher conference we should be having today. Weeks? Maybe months? The unknown feels heavy and unsettling. 

But I do know one thing: in the time between now and then as we adjust to what school has to look like in the time of coronavirus, my appreciation for her and the thousands of other teachers, staff, and administrators who are doing so much more than their jobs will only grow. 

(And you better believe I’ll be giving her a great big hug as soon as the CDC says it’s socially acceptable.) 

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Carolyn Moore

Carolyn has served as Editor-in-Chief of Her View From Home since 2017. A long time ago, she worked in local TV news and fell in love with telling stories—something she feels grateful to help women do every day at HVFH. She lives in flyover country with her husband and five kids but is really meant to be by the ocean with a good book and a McDonald's fountain Coke. 

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